Hmmmmm. May kinda blew for MseDater. Not that many dates, the highlight that soon became the lowlight was SpryGuy/YIIIPPPEEEEE!!!/WTF, and we all know (have no freakin' clue) what happened there. So, here goes the shortest update post ever:
Date Forty Four and Forty Eight: he came, he loved, he changed names multiple times, and in the end, all I got was a scab on my skull from all the head scratching trying to figure out what in the hell happened here. Have heard not a peep from this one since he ditched me on the street corner. When I tell this story to friends, the first thing they think is that he was gay. Possibly, but I don't think so. My guess: PTSD or some other severe emotional disorder. Do I want to deal with that mess? No. Done and done.
Date Forty Five: Ethiopian XGF talker. With the credit problem. Yeah. He emailed me and then called to say "What's up?". I declined to respond. I thought briefly about emailing to tell him thanks, but no thanks then my job became evil, took over my brain, and by the time I got back around to him, the window for the soft let down had closed. Bon chance, my friend!
Date Forty Six: Ping Pong with JS. This is also a stumper. We went out, played pong, had a great time. He dropped me off suggesting another date. After that we exchanged some emails and tried to make plans over the three day weekend but he ended up going out of town and after sending a text message and not having it answered, I figured there was a pretty good chance that he'd taken his exit. He used the out of town to cut communication and fall of the face. No worries ... I've been there. After three dates, when you're really not sure that person is for you, it's hard to tell them because expectations have started to form. Hope he found a nature lovin' lady to hike the world with!
Date Forty Seven: already updated Caveman. Guess he accepted my lack of response as a response to his ridiculous offer. Idiot.
And ... as I said, cokehead XBF has resurfaced. This is someone I dated for close to a year three years ago. The relationship ended when he told me that he'd gotten another woman pregnant. Nice. Turns out he married her, has a son who's close to two, and is now leaving his wife. A perfect time to try and rekindle with me!!! ASSHOLE. I communicated once because I felt sorry for him and was looking forward to treating him like shit since I let him walk all over me like a doormat when we were together and I have this very strong desire to avenge my own behavior by being super mean now. Plus, I was a tad curious ... I mean, honestly, who wouldn't be, right? Problem is: now he won't leave me alone. I need to tell him I'm seeing someone but fear that he'll think I'm lying since I didn't mention it initially. He's a super manipulative snake in the grass and I need to be very careful. It makes me significantly uncomfortable that I could just be walking around someday and see him in my neighborhood.
So, this is all I ask ... please, not because I've been a brave eDater, not because I've been tolerant and patient and mostly accepting of all manner of men and their behavior, let me meet someone. Soon. Someone large, tattooed, who has an aggressive side that only comes out when faced with cokehead XBFs who are trying foolishly to rekindle before there's even ink on the divorce papers. Please.
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