THX

Thanks to everyone who's commented and to everyone else (ahem, Wanderfull ... ) who might choose to weigh in on the "conversation" issue. You are all right, of course, and the chances of me actually bringing this up are slim to none but I guess I just needed some outside confirmation. I appreciate Amy's advice in particular ... to stop meddling in my own life. Very interesting as that's exactly what has gotten me in trouble in the past. Well, that and the freakshow factor. I often wonder why it is so hard for me to relax and go with the flow in relationship situations. Then I remember that it is not in my nature to relax and go with the flow, as I am a master planner and like to be in control of my life in all ways. Letting this go is at times very, very uncomfortable for me. But I'm not God and can't control this other wonderful beautiful human being that I feel lucky to be getting to know. Guess I just need to trust that he won't purposefully hurt me and keep my chin up.

Hoping this one isn't a freakshow. There's been no evidence as of yet that this will occur but I've been surprised before. We're getting together at my place in a couple hours to chill together and cook again ... I had some great luck at the DMV today and I'm hoping that this will continue over to tonight! Jess ... we're making empanadas. A food adventure I embarked on after having very tasty ones at your house. So, thanks for both the advice and the inspiration!!

Check in with you guys soon ...

(And, hello to ecp in Oregon ... have you been able to hook up with the bro yet? Hope you're lovin' it out there!)